Bad reasons not to continue a relationship include the fact that they crack their knuckles too much, the fact that they leave the cap on the shampoo open, the fact that sometimes they don’t put the milk back in the fridge, and the fact that they order cranberry juice at every restaurant they go to.
Russians (and maybe other immigrant/ethnic groups that I am too lazy to look up) date immediately looking for a serious relationship and for marriage. On the dating habits of young Russians, she said: ”Your attitude is that you are doing it for a higher purpose.A lot of people in the American community seem to date so that they have something to talk about with a friend at dinner.” ”If you are going out with someone for two years and you haven’t figured out some integral part of the relationship and you’re not sure and you don’t know, then you shouldn’t be together.” I’ve noticed this occasionally with American friends, that they’ll date someone for no apparent reason, and break up with them for small slights, like, “She didn’t brush her teeth correctly,” or, “She called her mom too often.” Not exactly, but silly reasons that should not be deal breakers at all. B and I agreed that the key parts of a relationship that you should break up over include whether you can trust the person, whether you think they will provide for your family, and whether you think they are generally a good person.Just my feelings...there arent a whole lot of well adjusted highly educated women who had kids at 18-22...sure there are some but they are by far in the minority.Granted you have to be careful because some of them can be baby crazy..you have to be extra diligent about not stiking your dik in crazy. ref=4abffc9d33310I haven't had experience but I have noticed how single mums now find me more desireable than they would pre child.Too often, I think, people tend to go into relationships not thinking about the key question, “Would I start a life/family with this person?
” Is it because of some cultural conditioning that Russians do?Or just because we like to think about the long term (meaning death) a lot? The little quirks you can live with and sometimes even ask the other person to fix.If you get married younger, this becomes much easier, because the older people are, the more they settle into their habits. I could never date/wife someone that already has kids, i wouldnt even consider it. Your thread has made up my mind to not enter that dating scene even if some of them are hot.Maybe thats shallow, but i dont want to enter a relationship as the 3rd wheel always between her, her kid, and the kids dad. I respect that kids should come first, and im always nice to these girls kids. Americans (and maybe other people, but, yeah, mostly Americans) tend to date just to date for the heck of it in the beginning.